Posted by Salwa on Thu, May 11 at 4:03pm:

Assalamu'aleikum,
I am so sick and tired of the big sign on my forehead that says "FREE GREENCARD" it is so heavy now, and it gets tiring after awhile, why can't sincere brothers reply to a sister, maybe thats cause they are so dedicated into looking for virgins, yes... I should have done that to the first brother I married, I should have only chosen a virgin man instead of the brother with 5 kids since I was a virgin myself... But no, this sister see's all of humanity the same and doesn't think of greed but the faith the person has in Allah swt... May Allah swt bless you all, and please brothers if you looking thats fine, but I offer no greencards, so don't bother... Having 6 kids doesn't lower my self honor, so think I am to be used for other purposes besides being a wife...